Woulda, Coulda, Shoulda

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 My weekend has been amazing for three reasons:

1. I've gone to the pool every day
2. I've drank like a fish
3. Most importantly, I have been surrounded by people who love me.  Really, truly love me and always will.  And I bet if I asked to hold their hand, they would.  And that's pretty great.  

  Getting over a breakup Let's be real - getting dumped - is a whole lot easier to do when I realized I wasn't defined by that relationship.  The more I thought about it, the more I realized I am defined by really awesome things right now.  Things like:

• Grad school

• A fucking awesome job

• Found family

• My level of motivation

• You know... awesome things.  Positive things.  Forward-motion things.

The thing about it is, he isn't a bad guy.  He's a great guy, and I really mean that.  But.... we just aren't right for each other.  And that's ok.   We'll be ok. No wait, we'll both be great.   ...especially me.